Childeren's Christmas Presentation

Last Saturday, I went to my son's Christmas presentation - English one in the morning and Japanese one in the late evening. The time was too early for the English school and the other was too late. Anyway, it is hard to train the kids to perform. I remember when I was in kindergarten and elementary school, we had play. When I was a kid, there was always one or two main casts and assisting casts, and many more. And there was always the popular boy or girl who got a main cast. But recently there is no such star performer in Japan. There are three Snow White, three kings, three princess, etc.

Recently Japanese school try to avoid competition as much as possible, especially in their early age, but this trend continues until they graduate from College. So when they graduate from college and enter the work force, they finally realize that there is a very hard competition in the society. Then they are shocked and depressed.

I think healthy competition is good and we as a adult should teach the real world. If we raise our children in a happy bubble, they will never learn the reality of the world. I think looking for the partner is somewhat the same. If I don't tell the clients the reality, and tell them what they want to hear, they may not be able to find anybody. And sometimes, they blame us because I did not introduce the person they wanted. But you should know who you are and where you are standing now. And know your limit and accept your gift. Everyone is different and you don't have to be the same.

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